I'm not the hardest person in the world to please. As a matter of fact, I am easily flattered with just a few kind words or even a thoughtful act. As much as it is a good thing, in my world it makes things a bit difficult for me. Decision making becomes a difficult task. One moment I feel this way, the next I feel another. I'm always in a "tug-of-war" position and the main cause is because I am a people pleaser. At some points I feel as if it is a flaw of mine because priorities and resolutions become oppressing.
[To Do] I need to start putting myself first.
As much as I benefit from others and others benefit from me. There will be individuals or obstacles that will hold me back, but in the end I need to be reminded that the only person who knows me best is myself. I can please people with no end, but most importantly I need to be happy. I'm at the point where I need to come up with a resolution whole heartedly. I need to believe that whatever path I choose, it will be both for the best and God will make me prosper in that area. This is the challenge I have to set for myself: put yourself first and be certain that the path chosen is a path where growth will take place.
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